This is what the recent news says:
Detained: Chelsea Ives is seen arriving at Westminster Magistrates Court overnight.
Mrs Ives told The Sun: 'We've no regrets and
would do the same again.
My children have always been taught right from
wrong. We were not being
brave, it's what any right-thinking person ......
How many parents would think in the same line?
Right from the Mahabharat days, [Dhridarashtra ] children ,if they were wrong ,were never scolded or shown the right path.
Who is to be blamed? Definitely not the children. It's the adults : for they have failed to inculcate honesty, righteousness and simplicity among their children.
They fail to discipline fearing they would incur their kids wrath and result, children falling into the wrong path.
Parents indirectly tell them that if they do not get admission they are ready to go through " back door entry." Here they are teaching : 'through bribe things can be bought' .
The relationship between parents and children are like wheels on an axis, time to time they need to be oiled with love ,affection and discipline.
The children's disappointments and anger trigger into violence and they retort to their parents and go for self destruction.The confused behaviour of parents puts them at a place that they are not able to judge their parents.
They are in the world of success -focused society , and every action should end in success, failing which they are considered 'misfit' in the society.
They do not have the time invent, imagine ,play or interact with their friends and like minded people, they become impatient and have no sympathy for the people around them . They have no value for the others and instead keep looking for emotional support and security.
What is to be done?
The parents have to sit with their children to focus on the issues related to their self- confidence, self-worth,security,control of emotions etc. By creating a relief- cushion the parents can guide their children thro' the right path and make them bold and strong to face the harsh realities of life , which can no way be avoided or ignored!
The healthy mental and physical status would definitely help the children to come up in life as a good human being and a balanced citizen.