Here are the details of major events that are gonna happen in our wedding...
VruthamThe wedding rituals formally begin with prayers offered to ancestors to seek their and God's blessings for the upcoming wedding. This usually takes place in the early morning hours of the day before the wedding day. A sacred yellow thread it tied on the wrists of the bride and the groom. This is followed by the 'palika' ceremony, where nine varieties of grains are sprinkled on the bride and groom, to bless them with prosperity. At the end of the function, an 'aarthi' ceremony is performed.
Janavasam/"maapillai azhaippu" - The Procession
-There are some functions in a wedding ceremony which are vaideekam and some are loukeekams. Vaideekam has to be followed to the letter and loukeekam can take a backseat.
Vritham, Kanyakadanam, Mangalya dharanam and sapthapathyare vaidekamamnd essential. There is one PRAVISYA HOMAM just before nuptials which is also a vaidikaam requirements.Nowa days, there is no sanctity for all the functions and they hae become SOUKARTHAM ( according toconvenience)