With the DIG (double
income group ) parents, the children lose most of the parental care and
they end up with psychological problems. I am not here to put a blanket
statement on this. What I understand from the news reported.
Recently, I heard a
3 year old child has been put into a hostel for the best conduct! What if the child
doesn't pick up good manners? Parents do not have faith and confidence in bringing up their own child?Is it the fear or lack of time or too much into career?
How can the parents
be sure the child would get a better conduct being out of their sight?
Isn’t their
responsibility to bring up their child? Why should they go for a child when
they cannot take care? They should have also planned how they are going
to bring up the child in both of them being working professionals.
Later
as the child grows it may end up with psychological depression. Mere spending the
weekends and taking them out would not give room for interaction. Do they as
parents get enough time for each other?
Absence of parents leads to lack of emotional attachment .Parents
with their demanding jobs do not have a good quality time with
their kids .So to keep them occupied send them to tuitions and other extra
activities. Lack of attention from parents creates attention seeking
syndrome.
The latch key kids behave strangely and try to get the
attention in any manner. Their behaviour causes concern to the teachers and
parents as well.
Spending more
quality time with kids would bring up good citizens to the society. They do not
have emotional support, nor do they have any security.
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